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So, I've been seeing this bloke for a while now, and things got pretty serious pretty quick. We took things to the next level, and he told me he wanted to marry me after that. I thought we were on the same page, but now he's just ignoring me completely. I've tried calling, texting, the whole works, and nothing. I'm starting to feel like a right idiot for believing him. I mean, I know I shouldn't have slept with him so soon, but I thought we had a connection. My girlfriend's always saying I'm too independent, that I need to let people in more, but this just makes me want to lock myself away. I'm really struggling to understand what happened here, and I could use some advice on how to deal with this situation

Ivan Kuznetsov · Answer

Sounds familiar. My sister went through something same last year. Guy was saying all the sweet words, talking marriage, even met her parents. Then one day — radio silence. She called, texted, even went to his flat. Nothing. Took her months to realize he was never serious, just caught up in the moment. Its hard when someone make you believe you special, then act like you nothing.

I know you thinking you stupid for sleeping with him so soon. Dont beat yourself for that. You gave chance, you was open — thats not crime. Problem is him, not you.

Only thing you can do now is stop reaching out. Block him if you have to. Let him show his face first. If he want real thing, he come back with explanation, not just silence. And if he dont? Then you saved yourself from bigger pain later.

This situation have no solution until he speak. So for now — take care you. Go out with friends. Dont sit home waiting.

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