He told me to pick between him or the baby
So I found out I’m pregnant last week. I was scared but also kind of excited, you know? We’ve been talking about maybe having kids someday… just not quite like this. Anyway, when I told him, he got quiet. Like, really quiet. Then he said, “If you keep it, we’re done.” I couldn’t believe it. Like… what kind of person says that? We’ve been together 3 years. There were always little red flags — he hates when I hang out with my friends, gets mad if I’m late by 10 minutes, stuff like that. But I stayed because he’s sweet sometimes? When he wants to be. Now he’s acting like this is some ultimatum. I don’t even feel safe bringing it up again because he gets so intense. Last time I tried to talk, he threw his phone across the room... Part of me wonders if I’m overreacting? But then I think… no. This feels really wrong. He says he loves me but… love doesn’t feel like this, right? I don’t even know who to talk to about it. My mom would freak. My friends keep saying “just leave” but it’s not that simple… idk. I just need to know if I’m crazy for even considering staying?