Hikikimori partner
I've been with my husband for 5 years now and things have been getting really tough lately. He's basically become a hikikimori - he refuses to leave the house or get a job and I'm carrying everything alone. I work two jobs just to make ends meet and I'm exhausted. We dont even have a social life anymore because he's too anxious to go out. I feel like I'm losing myself in all of this. I love him but idk how much more of this I can take. We used to be happy and now I just feel like a single parent or something. I've tried talking to him about it but he just gets defensive and says I dont understand what he's going through. I'm a cancer and he's a scorpio btw - maybe thats part of the problem? lol. Our sex life is basically non existent at this point and I'm starting to feel really resentful. I dont know what to do anymore