How do I deal with my witchcraft-practicing MIL?

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Okay so this sounds insane but I’m not making this up. My mother-in-law lives with us (arranged marriage, dont ask) and she’s into witchcraft like full on spells, candles, herbs, the works. Last week our water heater broke and she glared at me and said “your negative energy brought this” and I was just… what. Then my husband got a cold and she refused to let him take medicine because she said I cursed him with jealousy. I didnt even know he was sick until she said that.

We’ve tried talking to my husband about it but he just says “she means well” and “just ignore it” but its getting worse. Last night she put some weird powder outside our bedroom door and when I asked what it was she said it was to “block evil spirits” which… I assume is me.

I cant sleep, I feel paranoid, and now I’m scared to even complain about little things because she’ll blame me for the next apocalypse level thing that happens. How am I supposed to feel safe in my own home.

We share a bed, we’re supposed to be building a life but I feel like I’m living in a horror movie. Anybody else dealt with something like this…

Maya Williams · Answer

So my mom was deep into energy cleansing & lunar rituals when I was a kid — got dragged to too many full moon circles to count. I get how wild it feels when someone blames your 'vibes' for a broken water heater.

First, you gotta protect your peace. Set a hard line: no refusing medicine or accusing you of curses. My aunt once said my anxiety 'attracted bad spirits' and I told her straight — 'I respect your practice, but don’t label me the problem.' Worked best when I stayed calm but firm.

Try learning a bit about what she actually believes. Not to debate — just so you’re not blindsided. My mom used sage when stressed, not to hex anyone. Context helped me stop taking it personally.

But if she’s interfering with health or normal life? That’s not okay. Pull your husband aside and say, 'We need rules — no blocking meds or blaming me when stuff breaks.' He owes you backup, especially if he’s her son.

Sometimes they’ll dial it back if they know there are limits. And if not? You might need more space than sharing a house allows…

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