Is fighting about future normal?

We’ve been married 6 years, and every time I try to talk about what comes next — jobs, maybe moving, kids — she shuts down or starts yelling. Like last week I said maybe we can visit my sister in Pune, just to get out, and she said I only care about my family. See, I don’t even know what started it, but suddenly we’re screaming. She says I plan too much, I say she doesn’t care. But it’s not just this — she barely looks at me now. I cook, I clean, I ask how her day was… she just stares at her phone. Only. Sometimes I wonder if she’s waiting for me to fail na? Or maybe she already left and we just didn’t notice. My mom says every couple fights, but this feels different. Like we’re teammates in a war no one wants to win. Is this just marriage, or are we done?