Is he managing?
I work in Europe and send money home to my partner in Nigeria. He says he's managing the household with it but I'm not sure. I won't lie to you, it's frustrating when I ask him what he's doing with the money and he just tells me not to worry. My family expects me to take care of them and I do, but I also want to make sure my partner is being responsible. He's from a good family, we even paid bride price and everything, so I thought he would be more transparent with me. I feel like I'm doing everything on my own and it's lonely. Does anyone else have to deal with this?