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Postpone wedding?

So my fiancée and I have been planning our wedding for like a year now, and we're finally set to tie the knot in a few months. We're both super excited, but things got a little weird when we went to see this astrologer my mom's been bugging us to visit. Like, I don't even believe in that stuff but my fiancée is really into it. Anyway, the astrologer told us that this year is bad for marriage, especially for same-sex couples, and that we should postpone it till next year. I'm freaking out cuz we've already paid for the venue and everything. My fiancée is being really calm about it, saying we should listen to the astrologer, but I feel like it's just an excuse to delay things. Like, what if next year is even worse? I don't know what to do, part of me wants to just go through with it and the other part is freaking out...

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my cousin did the same thing—astrologer said wait and suddenly the whole wedding timeline flipped upside down.

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Priya Sharma
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19 days ago
my cousin did the same thing—astrologer said wait and suddenly the whole wedding timeline flipped upside down. we spent weeks arguing about it and honestly it brought up way more stuff than just stars and planets. turned out my partner was already stressed about money and the sign just gave her an excuse to hit pause. so i’d ask your fiancée—really—is it the stars or is something else bugging her? we ended up sitting down with a glass of wine and just talked about what we each actually wanted not what her mom or some chart thought. you’ve been planning for a year that’s real work and love not just vibes. if she’s truly shook maybe push the date a few months not a whole year just to breathe but don’t let someone else’s prediction steal your joy. it’s your wedding. also ran into her astrologer at a coffee shop last month weird she didn’t look magical at all

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my cousin did the same thing—astrologer said wait and suddenly the whole wedding timeline flipped upside down.

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Priya Sharma
70 rep
19 days ago
my cousin did the same thing—astrologer said wait and suddenly the whole wedding timeline flipped upside down. we spent weeks arguing about it and honestly it brought up way more stuff than just stars and planets. turned out my partner was already stressed about money and the sign just gave her an excuse to hit pause. so i’d ask your fiancée—really—is it the stars or is something else bugging her? we ended up sitting down with a glass of wine and just talked about what we each actually wanted not what her mom or some chart thought. you’ve been planning for a year that’s real work and love not just vibes. if she’s truly shook maybe push the date a few months not a whole year just to breathe but don’t let someone else’s prediction steal your joy. it’s your wedding. also ran into her astrologer at a coffee shop last month weird she didn’t look magical at all

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