She said she loves me but won’t commit?
So we’ve been seeing each other for four months, right? Late nights, weekends, even met my sister at that little empanada place in Palermo. She cried when I told her about my dad passing, held my hand… I really thought this was it. Then out of nowhere, she says, “I love you, but I’m not ready for a relationship.” Wait… what? If you love someone, isn’t that the whole point? I keep thinking maybe it’s me. But she texts me every day, wants to cuddle, says I’m the best thing that’s happened to her. But then she pulls away when I bring up us being official. My mom already asked when she’s coming to Sunday lunch… In my family everyone knows everything, you know? This silence, it’s killing me. Is she just using me for comfort? Or is this some kind of fear thing? I don’t want to beg for scraps. It’s a matter of respect, really. I just… I don’t understand how someone can say they love you and still leave you feeling so alone. Like, what are we doing? ...