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I've been dating this girl for a few months now and everything was going great. She's super sweet and caring, always making time for me and my family. My wife's cousins even love her! But then out of nowhere, she tells me she loves me and the next day she's cold as ice. Hay naku, I was super confused, I didn't know what to do. I tried calling and texting her but she just ignores me. I feel like I did something wrong but I have no idea what. It's super frustrating because I thought we had something real. I'm starting to think maybe I misread the whole situation. Did I just imagine everything?

Lance Whitfield · Answer

So I've been in a similar situation before and it's super confusing, right? Like, one day everything's fine and the next it's like you're a stranger. I think what happened is she might've said something that made her feel vulnerable and then she got scared... I did the same thing with my ex, I said I loved her and she just froze up on me. What I did was give her space, like a lot of space, and then I sent her a simple text saying I'm there for her when she's ready to talk. Didn't push her or anything, just let her know I care. Maybe try that?

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