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She gives me silent treatment for days over things I didn’t even do?

So my girlfriend of 2 years suddenly stops talking to me — like full radio silence for 4 days straight. I’m texting her asking what’s wrong and she just reads and nothing. Then finally she drops this...

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Nour Khalil
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Who am I without him after 12 years?

We got married when I was 23. I dropped my job after a year because lola said it’s better for the family if I stay home. Now we’re separated and I don’t even know what I like anymore. Foods, movies, e...

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Sunshine Bernardo
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Are we compatible or just too busy to see we're not?

We've been together 5 years, married 2. Met through friends, he's not Teochew but family said okay after some convincing. Ma said his zodiac and mine — Tiger and Dog — not ideal, but we trying so supp...

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Irene Tjio
1d ago

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Worried about reaction

So broke up with my girl, I've started my own business with her help but now i'm worried she's going not help me anymore when i leave, we've spoken about this, she said she will still help me but some...

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Anonymous
1d ago

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Lost myself

I've been with my partner for 5 years, we met in uni & everything was perfect, but then he got a job in London and I stayed back in Wales. The distance has been killing me, feels like I'm just going t...

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Megan Griffiths
1d ago

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My husband's family keeps bringing up my salary

So we’ve been married 6 years now, two kids. I work in logistics, he’s a technician. I started bringing in more after I got promoted last year. At first it was little things — his sister saying ‘oh, m...

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Yusuf Hamdan
2d ago

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Should I be doing all this work for his family already?

We've been together for 3 years, engaged for one. Every time I visit his province, his mom expects me to cook, clean, wash their clothes—even serve them at the table. His sisters just sit and scroll....

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George Dela Cruz
2d ago

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She came back after marrying for a visa… can I trust her?

We were together for 5 years, on and off since college. When she left for Canada, I thought it was just for work. Then she marries some guy she barely knew—just for the visa, she says. I was heartbrok...

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Sunshine Bernardo
2d ago

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He says I changed after marriage… but I stopped acting

Arre, I don’t even know where to start. We’ve been married 3 years, and my husband keeps saying, 'You were so sweet before marriage… now you’ve changed.' But honestly? I just stopped pretending. Back...

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Raj Malhotra
2d ago

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Am I just wasting my time fighting for us?

I love her so much but I’m the only one showing up. My family hasn’t spoken to me in months just because she’s Shia and I’m Sunni and we’re not married yet they act like I’ve betrayed everyone. My mom...

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Walid Khatib
3d ago

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How do I stop feeling guilty for ending it?

We were set up through my mom’s cousin. Met five times over three months, always in family cafes, never alone. He was... fine. Polite, job stable, family liked him. But every time we talked, I just fe...

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Aisha Patel
3d ago

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How do I stop feeling guilty for wanting out?

Honestly, I don’t even know where to start. I was raised in such a strict Catholic household—mass every Sunday, prayers before meals, the whole thing. My mom still tells me that divorce is a sin, that...

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Charito Lacsamana
3d ago

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Was it worth leaving love for excitement?

i was with my ex for 3 years. he treated me like real couple. cooked for me, called my mom every week, always calm and kind. everyone said he was the one. then i met someone else — more intense, makes...

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Malee Srisooksai
4d ago

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Men dont cry?

I'm Nikolai, been married to my wife for 10 years, we have 2 kids. She's always saying I'm too traditional, that I dont listen to her, but I'm just trying to provide like my father did. He was a good...

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Nikolai Lebedev
4d ago

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relationship

Broke up with my girl, still staying together till i get my own place, met through a mutual friend, i got in an accident, she decided to look after me, moved all my stuff to her place, while recoverin...

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Anonymous
4d ago

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Real relationship?

I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now and I'm starting to wonder if what we have is a real relationship or just two people who are afraid to be alone we've been talking about moving in tog...

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Whitney Hughes
4d ago

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My partner says I'm too emotional, am I?

We’ve been together for three years and every time I get upset about something—like him blowing off our plans or not calling when he says he will—he tells me I’m overreacting and need to calm down. La...

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Vanessa Ortega
5d ago

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His family’s cold — is it me or my passport?

We’ve been together 5 years, me a Malaysian Indian, him Singaporean Indian. His parents never invite me for meals, even when we visit the same temple. Always say they ‘already ate’ or ‘tired’. But whe...

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Daniel Krishnan
6d ago

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My wife's secretly talking to her ex for months

Found out my wife's been texting her ex almost every day for the past four months. She says it's just friendship, that they talk about books, music, stupid stuff. But she didn't tell me. I saw her pho...

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Ivan Kuznetsov
6d ago

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How long should I wait for a proposal?

So we’ve been together 8 years, been talking marriage since year two. Every time I bring it up, he says “not the right moment” — first it was his da’s illness, then work was mental, then we got a dog...

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Liam O'Brien
1w ago

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