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Parents won’t accept my non-Malay girlfriend

We’ve been together for 2 years now. Met her at a book store near Tiong Bahru — she’s Chinese, speaks decent Malay, even goes to the mosque with me on Eid. My parents know about her, but every time I...

Situationships
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In-Laws
Arranged Marriage
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Faizul Rahman
15h ago

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Always Compromising?

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, he's from the South and I'm from the North. Already, we've had our fair share of differences, but I love him and I know he loves me too - he says I'm the l...

Communication
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healthy-boundaries
self-worth
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Thu Pham
21h ago

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Ignoring me?

I've been with my fiancé for a while now, we got physical and he promised to marry me after that. But now, he's completely ignoring me. I tried calling him, texting, everything. My family is already g...

Dating
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red-flags
ghosting
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Layla Hassan
22h ago

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What's going on?

So my ex came back from abroad and I don't know, he's just different. Like, I thought we were good, we were talking and stuff, but when he got back, it's like he's a stranger. He's very very quiet now...

Self Growth
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reconciliation
personal-story
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Rhea Tolentino
23h ago

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Lost myself

I've been with my partner for 5 years, we met in uni & everything was perfect, but then he got a job in London and I stayed back in Wales. The distance has been killing me, feels like I'm just going t...

Breakups
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loneliness
self-worth
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Megan Griffiths
1d ago

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Why so cold?

I've been dating this girl for a few months now, and everything was going great. We'd meet up every week, talk on the phone every night, and she even introduced me to her family. But then out of nowhe...

Family Conflict
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Zodiac Compatibility
ghosting
advice-needed
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Irene Tjio
1d ago

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Always Compromising

I've been dating this guy for a few months now and he says I'm the love of his life which is sweet but honestly it's getting kinda old hearing it when I'm always the one giving in. Like last weekend h...

Self Growth
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self-worth
advice-needed
healthy-boundaries
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Kristin Walsh
1d ago

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Did I get ghosted?

So, I've been seeing this bloke for a while now, and things got pretty serious pretty quick. We took things to the next level, and he told me he wanted to marry me after that. I thought we were on the...

Self Growth
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red-flags
advice-needed
ghosting
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Hamish Reid
2d ago

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Parents checked my background?

I'm really frustrated right now. So I've been seeing this guy for a bit and we just had our second date. Things were going great, I thought. But then he told me that his parents checked my family back...

Family Conflict
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red-flags
In-Laws
advice-needed
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Anonymous
2d ago

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What changed?

I've been married to my wife for seven years now, it was arranged by our families and we didnt really know each other before. At first, everything was okay, we did our duty as husband and wife, took c...

Family Conflict
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advice-needed
Arranged Marriage
Husband-Wife
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Zhao Gang
2d ago

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Always Compromising

The thing is, my partner says I'm the love of his life, but I feel like I'm always the one giving in. We live in my hometown, which he finds suffocating, but it's where my family is and I couldn't ima...

Self Growth
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healthy-boundaries
self-worth
advice-needed
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Anonymous
2d ago

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How do I know if this is real love?

I’ve been married for 8 years, but my husband and I only talk during video calls when he’s working overseas. Lately, I met someone here in Qatar — same hospital, same shift. We don’t even do much, jus...

Self Growth
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advice-needed
loneliness
Husband-Wife
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Anonymous
3d ago

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Love vs Pastor

I'm so torn, my pastor said I shouldnt be with my girlfriend because she's a woman and it goes against our church's teachings, but my people back home have always taught me to follow my heart and love...

LGBTQ+
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advice-needed
personal-story
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Segun Akinola
3d ago

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Marry local?

I dont know what to do, my family is expecting me to marry this balikbayan guy they set me up with but honestly, I'm super in love with someone local. We've been dating in secret for a while now and i...

Astrology & Compatibility
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Arranged Marriage
advice-needed
Compatibility
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Anonymous
4d ago

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Is he managing?

I work in Europe and send money home to my partner in Nigeria. He says he's managing the household with it but I'm not sure. I won't lie to you, it's frustrating when I ask him what he's doing with th...

Marriage
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advice-needed
Domestic Issues
healthy-boundaries
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Chidinma Eze
4d ago

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Controlling?

I've been dating this girl for a few months now and she's really lovely, my family loves her too, but there's this one thing that's been bothering me, she checks up on me every hour when I'm out with...

Astrology & Compatibility
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red-flags
healthy-boundaries
advice-needed
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Anonymous
4d ago

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Leave or stay?

I've been feeling really trapped in my life here, to be honest. Last time I thought marriage would bring me freedom, but it's just more responsibility. My wife, she's built a good career and has a lot...

Marriage
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advice-needed
loneliness
Husband-Wife
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Haziq Nordin
4d ago

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Lost Feelings

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, we met in uni and everything was great. He's a good guy, my parents love him, but lately, I just don't feel the same. We don't talk like we used to, it's a...

Communication
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advice-needed
love-language
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Wei Ming Chan
4d ago

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Attached or in love?

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and my parents are already asking when we're getting married. I feel like I'm more attached to her than actually in love, idk if that's a bad thing...

Infidelity
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advice-needed
attachment-style
love-language
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Anonymous
4d ago

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Real relationship?

I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now and I'm starting to wonder if what we have is a real relationship or just two people who are afraid to be alone we've been talking about moving in tog...

Breakups
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loneliness
divorce
advice-needed
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Whitney Hughes
5d ago
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