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i used to laugh loud — like, really loud — before i got married. now i catch myself biting my tongue all the time. my ex-husband always said i was 'too much' — too emotional, too loud, too sensitive....
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My husband, Misha, hasn’t touched me in over a year. Not angry, not fighting — just… gone. Like I’m furniture. He says I work too much, that I’m not the ‘soft woman’ he married. But I had to work. His...
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I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now and I'm starting to wonder if what we have is a real relationship or just two people who are afraid to be alone we've been talking about moving in tog...
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i stayed with my husband for 14 years, through the yelling, the promises to change, even when he ignored me for weeks at a time. my mama always said stick it out, that divorce is a last resort and i b...
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i don’t even know how to start this. met someone at a friend’s gallery opening here in Berlin. she’s Palestinian, studied film, laughs like she’s telling a secret — habibti, just *gets* me in a way no...
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We fight every day. Sometimes over nothing — like how she folds the clothes or the way I chew food, isn’t it? But it always ends with her saying I’m useless, jobless, good for nothing. My job isn’t gr...
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i thought marrying my college sweetheart was the dream we dated for 3 years got married at 26 everyone said we were soulmates fast forward 7 years and were barely talking we share a fridge and a mortg...
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okay so my wife has this thing where she never just says what’s wrong. like the other day i asked if she wanted me to pick up groceries and she said 'whatever, it doesn’t matter' — but later i find ou...
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So we’ve been married 3 years, and at first I thought it was sweet how into my Filipino culture he was. He loved the food, asked to go to every family event, even learned some Tagalog. But lately it’s...
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I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we've talked about getting married. He's always said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but lately, thier's been alot of pressure from his...
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so my husband has his buddies over every friday like clockwork. i cook, clean, pour their drinks, and run around making sure everyone’s taken care of. but i’m never supposed to sit down with them. one...
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i’m 27 and out to my friends but not my parents. they’ve been pushing marriage for years and now they set a date — like, actual invites are being printed. they found this girl from our hometown, says...
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So my boyfriend of three years finally proposed last month and I was on top of the world we talked about marriage for so long and he kept saying his parents aren’t ready but now he’s like nah I’m doin...
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so i found out my boyfriend has a private instagram i never knew about. we’ve been together 3 years and i stumbled on it cause a mutual friend liked a story. i didn’t even know he still used instagram...
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Ok so I’ve been with my husband for 8 years and worked in marketing since we got married. Last week he tells me out of nowhere that all his colleagues’ wives stay home and raise kids so why can’t I ju...
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So my fiancé and I are doing a long-distance thing right now—he’s in Lahore with his family, I’m here in Toronto. We met through family, like arranged-adjacent, and we’re both okay with it. He’s 32, I...
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So I’ve been seeing this guy for about 8 months and it’s not really a relationship but also not nothing you know? We broke up once last year when I asked for more and he said he wasn’t ready but then...
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So my wife came out as transgender a few months ago and honestly it’s been a lot to take in we’ve been together 12 years and have two kids and I love her but I don’t always know how to talk to her any...
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So we've been together 7 years — living together the whole time — and he keeps saying marriage isn’t for him. his parents had a brutal divorce, so he’s got that scarred vibe, which I get. but sometime...
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So we've been dating for about 8 months now and things are... fine? But I keep feeling this ache, like I'm alone even when he's right there. He works long hours, which I get, but when he's home he's o...