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how do i learn who i am after 7 years with her?

we met in college, she was the first person who made me feel seen, but also the first person i ever hid myself for. stayed with her through grad school, moving back to shanghai, her parents never liki...

LGBTQ+
ANSWERED
Coming Out
self-worth
LGBTQ
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Wang Fang
1d ago

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How do I choose between my partner and my parents?

We’ve been together for three years, and she keeps saying she can’t stay in Pakistan forever. Wants to move to Canada, build a life there. I get it, opportunities here are crap, especially for someone...

LGBTQ+
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personal-story
Same-Sex
LGBTQ
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Anonymous
2d ago

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How do I stop overthinking every word I say?

So I’ve been with my partner for about two years now, and lately I feel like I can’t say anything without running it through this mental filter first. Like, I’ll start to say something simple—how my d...

LGBTQ+
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Domestic Issues
LGBTQ
healthy-boundaries
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Isaiah Freeman
2d ago

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He blames me for things I didn’t do

Last night, my boyfriend got mad because he thought I read his messages without permission. I didn’t even touch his phone. When I tried to explain, he said I’m always defensive and too sensitive. It’s...

LGBTQ+
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LGBTQ
red-flags
toxic-relationship
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Masato Shimizu
2d ago

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How do I fix things when I can't even speak up?

My parents spent everything—savings, sold grandma’s gold, the works—on my wedding. It was like a big fat Malayali dream, you know? Lots of photos, guests from everywhere, even flew uncles from Cochin....

LGBTQ+
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Arranged Marriage
LGBTQ
loneliness
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Lakshmi Pillai
3d ago

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Still haven't met his family after 5 years?

We’ve been together five years, and I still haven’t met his parents. Not even once. Every time it comes up, it’s always some excuse — they’re visiting relatives, or it’s not the right time, or very th...

LGBTQ+
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LGBTQ
In-Laws
loneliness
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Siti Rahimah
5d ago

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Why does every fight feel like a war?

So I’m American, she’s French — we met in Marseille last summer and honestly it was electric. But now every time we disagree about something small like — I don’t know — not calling her mom enough or h...

LGBTQ+
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LGBTQ
healthy-boundaries
love-language
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Margot Bernard
5d ago

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How do I know if I really like him or just lonely?

i started seeing someone 3 weeks after breaking up with my ex of 6 years. was hard letting go, even though it ended bad. we were planning marriage, then he said i was too much, too religious, not fun....

LGBTQ+
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Husband-Wife
loneliness
LGBTQ
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Anonymous
5d ago

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Can love survive if my parents say no?

been with my partner for 2 years, met during uni days. they’re not Malay, not Muslim either. we never planned too far ahead but lately it’s hitting me — my parents won’t accept it. they already asking...

LGBTQ+
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love-language
LGBTQ
personal-story
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Anonymous
6d ago

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His 'honesty' feels like a slap

On the one hand, I appreciate that my partner doesn’t sugarcoat things. On the other hand, he’ll say stuff like 'You look tired today' or 'That outfit makes you look wider' and call it 'honesty'. We’r...

LGBTQ+
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healthy-boundaries
red-flags
LGBTQ
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Lena Wagner
6d ago

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Why won’t he commit after 7 years?

we’ve been together since college me 22 him 21 back then everybody was like oh y’all so cute gonna get married next thing you know 7 years fly by and every time i bring up a ring or even just a date h...

LGBTQ+
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LGBTQ
advice-needed
engagement
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Marcus Webb
1w ago

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He says I'm his soulmate but I'm always giving in

We’ve been together 4 years and he keeps saying I’m the love of his life the one he’s waited for but every decision ends with me bending. Last month his parents wanted us to attend some cousin’s weddi...

LGBTQ+
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LGBTQ
healthy-boundaries
self-worth
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Ali Yilmaz
1w ago

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App match but parents found out it’s not halal

So I matched with someone on this dating app, just curious you know? We talked for a few weeks, started getting close, even did a video call once — he wore a cap and kept it casual, but still, there w...

LGBTQ+
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Coming Out
online-dating
LGBTQ
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Anonymous
1w ago

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How do I leave when they threatened suicide?

i’ve been with my partner for almost three years and it’s been up and down the whole time. last month i finally said i needed space and they completely fell apart. literally told me if i left they wou...

LGBTQ+
ANSWERED
LGBTQ
healthy-boundaries
toxic-relationship
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Anonymous
1w ago

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She says she loves me but not ready for a relationship?

so we been talkin for months kinda flirty then one night she text me 'i love you' outta nowhere and my heart jumped i wont lie i said it back we talked every day sometimes late into the night about ev...

LGBTQ+
ANSWERED
LGBTQ
healthy-boundaries
personal-story
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Marcus Webb
1w ago

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My pastor says she's not God's plan for me

I never planned for this. I’m Chukwuemeka, from Anambra, and everyone back home expect say I go marry girl from village—good family, church woman, all of that. But then I meet Ada in my office here in...

LGBTQ+
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love-language
Coming Out
LGBTQ
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1
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Chukwuemeka Nwachukwu
1w ago

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What do I do when breaking up feels like abuse?

The thing is... I told Dani we should stop seeing each other. We’ve been together for a year, and it’s not working — I want something serious, marriage one day, kids maybe. Dani’s cool, but it’s all j...

LGBTQ+
ANSWERED
toxic-relationship
LGBTQ
healthy-boundaries
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Martín Vargas
1w ago

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did I trade love for just a thrill?

i broke up with maya last winter. she was the kind of woman who remembered my mom’s birthday, always had my favorite tea in her bag, and prayed with me when i was anxious. steady. safe. then i met rob...

LGBTQ+
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self-worth
advice-needed
LGBTQ
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Anonymous
1w ago

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Is it normal to feel lonely in a marriage like this?

we’ve been together for five years, married two… he’s from Brazil, I’m from Osaka. my family never really said it out loud but… you can feel the silence when we visit. anyway, lately I’ve noticed he g...

LGBTQ+
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loneliness
LGBTQ
healthy-boundaries
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Anonymous
1w ago

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We fight every time we talk about the future

Every time I bring up even small future stuff… like, I don’t know, holidays, or maybe moving in together someday, it turns into a fight. She says I’m pushing, that I don’t trust her. But how can I not...

LGBTQ+
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red-flags
loneliness
LGBTQ
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Natalia Restrepo
1w ago
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