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We were doing okay, actually. Like, not perfect, but we’d been together 8 months and she told me she loved me out of nowhere one night after dinner. I’m already 28 so when she said it, I let myself be...

The thing is, I was raised watching my family and friends believe that love is supposed to hurt sometimes, and I'm not sure if I've escaped that mindset. My girlfriend, mi amor, she says it too - that...

I’ve been with my partner for about two years now, and things are… mostly good. But there’s this one thing — he often makes plans with his friends last minute, and cancels on me the same day. It’s not...

I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now, and we've been doing the long distance thing for about a year. We're both from Colorado, but he's out in California for work. Lately, I've been feeli...

I don’t even know how to say this without crying, but I think I’m more scared of losing my partner than actually missing him if he were gone ay dios mio that sounds so bad out loud. We’ve been togethe...

From my experience... women in our circle don’t like it when you pull away, even if it’s for yourself. My girlfriend lives in Yekaterinburg, I’m in Moscow — been like this for 8 months. Last week I sa...

we’ve been married 3 years already and i keep wondering if what i feel is love or just… habit. he’s not unkind, but it’s like i stay because i already gave up so much for this — quit my job, moved awa...

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and my parents are already asking when we're getting married. I feel like I'm more attached to her than actually in love, idk if that's a bad thing...

Like, my parents were OFW since I was little. They’d call every Sunday, send money, but I grew up with my lola. I didn’t blame them — they were working hard, I get it. But now I’m 27, in this relation...

So me & my fiancée have been together 3 years — got engaged last summer at my parents’ lake house, whole family was there, it felt like the right move at the time. But lately I’ve been wondering if I’...

We were at this little wine bar in Montmartre, right. Everything felt light, she was touching my hand, laughing like she really saw me. Then out of nowhere she says 'Je t'aime' — not the casual 'je t'...

Every time I try to say no to something—like when I wanted to go cycling with my brother on Sunday instead of going to her parents’ house she starts crying uncontrollably and says I don’t care about h...

We've been together 3 years, living together most of that. Met at a church picnic back home in Ohio—everyone loved her, my mom kept saying how she'd make a good wife. Which, yeah, we talk marriage som...

Me and my girlfriend... we’ve been together 3 years. Both of us are quiet types, don’t like sharing much, even with family. Last time never like this one — used to sit in silence and still feel... con...

I waited already 3 years for my wife to feel different, but nothing changed. We got married through family arrangement, my father-in-law made the decision fast, said she was good girl, obedient, from...

we were texting every day, making plans to meet up — she even canceled a work trip to come see me in the city. then outta nowhere, after she said 'i love you' over voice note (kinda intense but i like...

The thing is, we’ve been together eight months, and on paper? He’s amazing. Stable job, kind to my parents, remembers my coffee order, even learned a little French. But every time we argue—okay, when...

I grew up with both parents overseas. From as early as I can remember, it was just me and my lola. They’d call every Sunday, send money, bring gifts when they visited every two or three years... but t...

I've been with my partner for 5 years now and honestly I'm terrified of being alone and I think that's the only reason I'm still here... it's like I'm stuck in this relationship because the thought of...

Honestly, I'm really confused right now. My boyfriend got sponsored to work abroad and now he's been sending me money and stuff, which is really sweet of him. But like, I don't know if he's doing it b...