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How do we restart intimacy when it’s been months?

My husband and I have been married for six years and honestly things have been ok — work’s been crazy for both of us, we’re both in tech, always on calls or behind screens. But we haven’t been intimat...

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Taylor Kim
16h ago

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how to bring up something hard without causing conflict?

I’ve been with my partner for about two years now, and things are… mostly good. But there’s this one thing — he often makes plans with his friends last minute, and cancels on me the same day. It’s not...

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Yuki Tanaka
1d ago

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Why do I feel lonelier now than when I was single?

So we’ve been together 3 years, engaged for the last 6 months. Used to party a lot back in college—me and my fiancée both, but now she’s all about early dinners with her parents, church on Sunday, the...

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Lance Whitfield
2d ago

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Is this love or too much?

So me and my fiancée been together 8 months, and things been good — real good. We both got clean, no more partying like we used to down in New Orleans. She’s sweet, takes care of me, always got my bac...

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Lance Whitfield
2d ago

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He's perfect on paper but I'm not feeling it?

So we've been together 8 months, engaged now. On paper? Dude is golden — stable job, treats me decent, no crazy ex drama, checks every box my mom keeps texting me about 😂. But every time he touches m...

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Andre Coleman
2d ago

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She says she loves me but wont commit

We've been seeing each other for eight months. She stays at my place more than her own, we travel, meet friends, even her mother knows me — she calls me her 'special one'. But every time I ask about u...

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Irina Morozova
3d ago

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He promised to marry me after we got physical… now he's ghosting?

We’ve been together 1.5 years, met through a family friend during my visit to Kerala. Things moved fast emotionally — he said all the right things, kept talking about our future, how we’d get married...

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Anonymous
3d ago

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We talk every day but I feel so alone...

We talk every day, sometimes even twice a day when he’s on break at the workshop. Same time, same ‘how was your day’ chat. But after my amma called asking if everything’s okay between us… I just broke...

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Priya Krishnamurti
4d ago

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He gives advice when I open up… so I stopped

last week i told him i felt really lonely, like even at home i feel alone... he just said 'you should try joining a club or volunteering. structure helps.' 🤦 it wasn’t the first time. once i cried a....

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Mio Kobayashi
4d ago

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Why do I feel lonelier now than when I was single?

I don’t get it. We’ve been married for three years and honestly I felt more connected to people when I was single. I texted friends all the time went out for coffee laughed about dumb stuff. Now I jus...

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Anonymous
4d ago

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She said she loved me then shut down overnight?

My partner is a good person but I just don’t get what happened. A week ago she told me she loved me for the first time — out of nowhere, over tea at my mom’s place. I was stunned. We’ve been together...

Communication
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Anonymous
4d ago

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She said she loves me but won’t commit?

So we’ve been seeing each other for four months, right? Late nights, weekends, even met my sister at that little empanada place in Palermo. She cried when I told her about my dad passing, held my hand...

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Elena Vasquez
4d ago

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Am I in love or just attached?

So me & my fiancée have been together 3 years — got engaged last summer at my parents’ lake house, whole family was there, it felt like the right move at the time. But lately I’ve been wondering if I’...

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Lance Whitfield
5d ago

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Why hasn't he introduced me to his family after 4 years?

Weve been together four years. Lived together for two. I cook for him, I take care of things when his mother calls crying about the boiler again, I even remember his grandfather's birthday because he...

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Anonymous
6d ago

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Is wanting more wrong after an arranged marriage?

We’ve been married two years now. My parents picked him, and honestly, he’s not bad. Respectful, doesn’t yell, has a good job, never hits or insults me. But every day feels… flat. Like, we eat togethe...

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Nisha Kapoor
6d ago

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She said she loved me, then went cold

We were at this little wine bar in Montmartre, right. Everything felt light, she was touching my hand, laughing like she really saw me. Then out of nowhere she says 'Je t'aime' — not the casual 'je t'...

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Hugo Laurent
6d ago

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is it normal to fight every time we talk about future?

we get engaged last year. it was kind of arranged, but not fully — more like family hoped it would work. we both agreed because… well, it made sense. stable. safe. but lately, every time i try to talk...

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Yusuke Ogawa
6d ago

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He promised marriage after we got intimate… now he's ghosting?

We've been together for 8 months, and he kept saying 'once we are physical, I will take responsibility and marry you' — that's what he said, like it was a guarantee. Last month we did... and now he is...

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Ananya Reddy
6d ago

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He’s perfect on paper but why do I feel this way?

We got married last year through arranged setup. My husband... he’s IIT, settled in Canada, kind, never raises voice. Family brags about how I hit jackpot. But inside, I feel... empty. Like something’...

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Ajay Wagh
6d ago

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Love him but dont feel in love anymore?

Lately i just feel... empty. We’ve been together 7 years, married 2. He’s a good man—provider, respectful to my parents, never raises his voice. But after he came back from the US, things changed. Not...

Family Conflict
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Anonymous
6d ago
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