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How do we restart intimacy when it’s been months?

My husband and I have been married for six years and honestly things have been ok — work’s been crazy for both of us, we’re both in tech, always on calls or behind screens. But we haven’t been intimat...

Situationships
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Taylor Kim
16h ago

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He's perfect on paper but I'm not feeling it?

So we've been together 8 months, engaged now. On paper? Dude is golden — stable job, treats me decent, no crazy ex drama, checks every box my mom keeps texting me about 😂. But every time he touches m...

Intimacy & Desire
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Desire
Intimacy
red-flags
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Andre Coleman
2d ago

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She says she loves me but wont commit

We've been seeing each other for eight months. She stays at my place more than her own, we travel, meet friends, even her mother knows me — she calls me her 'special one'. But every time I ask about u...

Intimacy & Desire
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Desire
Intimacy
red-flags
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Irina Morozova
3d ago

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She said she loves me but won’t commit?

So we’ve been seeing each other for four months, right? Late nights, weekends, even met my sister at that little empanada place in Palermo. She cried when I told her about my dad passing, held my hand...

Intimacy & Desire
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Intimacy
Desire
healthy-boundaries
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Elena Vasquez
4d ago

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Still love him but the spark is gone?

We've been married eight years, three in Paris after moving from Lyon. I keep thinking it's just a phase — he's sweet, we have a good life, but every morning when he hums that same stupid Edith Piaf s...

Marriage
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Husband-Wife
loneliness
Desire
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Anonymous
5d ago

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Why keep delaying marriage after 5 years?

we’ve been together 5 years, talked marriage since year 2. every time i bring it up, he says not the right moment — first was about his job, then his sister’s wedding, now suddenly he says he feels ‘t...

Intimacy & Desire
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Desire
self-worth
loneliness
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Ahmad Faizal
6d ago

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Still love him but not in love anymore?

On the one hand, we’ve built a life — apartment, dog, he’s good with my mom, we even talk about maybe having a kid. On the other hand, I don’t feel anything when he touches me. Not annoyed, not repuls...

Family Conflict
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loneliness
Desire
Intimacy
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Mia Braun
1w ago

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We fight every time we talk about future?

God when? Every time I try to bring up plans—like maybe having kids or moving into a proper house—he shuts down or starts yelling like I’m attacking him. We’ve been married 3 years now and my people a...

Intimacy & Desire
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Desire
Intimacy
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Amara Okafor
1w ago

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BTO wait killing our intimacy — help?

We’ve applied for 4 BTOs already… no luck. First time we were optimistic, second time still okay, but now it’s been 5 years and we’re stuck renting a little place with my in-laws on weekends when we v...

Intimacy & Desire
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Desire
Intimacy
Domestic Issues
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Phoebe Tan
1w ago

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Is it normal to never have impulsive moments?

We’ve been together six years. Every date, every trip, every gift — planned weeks in advance. I don’t think we’ve ever woken up and just drove somewhere. On the one hand, it’s nice things are reliable...

Self Growth
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red-flags
Intimacy
Desire
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Mia Braun
1w ago

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How do I let go when the good times won’t let me?

We met at a family gathering years ago and at first everything felt like a dream she made me feel seen in a way no one had before and yes I know I shouldn’t have married her while still with my first...

Intimacy & Desire
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Desire
loneliness
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Faisal Al-Mutairi
1w ago

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How do I bring up sex when we havent in months?

Me & my wife havent been intimate in over 3 months now. I dont know how it got this far honestly. At first I thought she was just tired or stressed with her mom being sick but now it's just this quiet...

Intimacy & Desire
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Desire
Husband-Wife
Intimacy
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Cody Harrison
1w ago

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What do I do when I meet someone who sees me?

I met this bloke at a work thing in Bristol—just a casual drinks night, y'know how it gets. We ended up talking for ages, proper conversation, not just weather & small talk. He actually listened. Mont...

Situationships
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Desire
Husband-Wife
loneliness
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Maya Williams
1w ago

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Still love him but not in love?

We’ve been long distance for 2 years now — he’s in Melbourne for work, I’m still in Singapore. At first it was hard but I thought, Confirm worth it. We talk every day, plan for the future, even picked...

Long Distance
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loneliness
Desire
advice-needed
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Sharmila Devi
1w ago

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Is this love or just comfort?

We met at work—same BPO night shift, same team. Actually, we started talking because we were both stuck doing overtime and no one else wanted to be there. Honestly, it felt easy. We’d share food, comp...

Intimacy & Desire
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attachment-style
Husband-Wife
Desire
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Jess Aquino
1w ago

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He's perfect on paper but I feel nothing?

We’ve been together 8 months. He moved in after 5 – which felt fast, but his family was pushing and my parents said it’s practical so we did it. He’s stable, clean, pays bills on time, proposed last w...

Intimacy & Desire
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advice-needed
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Desire
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Laura Schmidt
1w ago

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Why am I the only one trying to save us?

I’m so tired. I really am. I keep showing up, planning little things — a quiet dinner, a drive to the coast, even praying together like we used to — but she just… watches TV or scrolls her phone. We’v...

Intimacy & Desire
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Domestic Issues
Intimacy
Desire
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Khaled Al-Rashid
1w ago

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How do I handle feelings for someone else?

I met this man at a coffee shop weeks ago & we just clicked, like really clicked — started talking about books, life, stuff nobody in my marriage has cared to ask in years. My husband don’t say much n...

Intimacy & Desire
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Desire
Husband-Wife
loneliness
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Brianna Evans
1w ago

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Why did things change after that night?

we were doing okay, even talking about future stuff. then one night, things got… intense. not bad, but different. like she was expecting something i didn’t give. i cannot say directly but… it had to d...

Intimacy & Desire
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self-worth
Desire
Intimacy
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Duc Nguyen
1w ago

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Is it normal we fight about the future?

Okay look. Every time I try to talk about what comes next — kids, where we live, even just next year — it turns into a fight. I say, 'Imagine us in Marseille with a little one running around,' and Cla...

Intimacy & Desire
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Desire
advice-needed
Intimacy
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Antoine Bernard
1w ago
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